I've been through all this. Destroyed me, mentally, physically and financially. Decades later I still have PTSD. Also destroyed in totality the relationship with my children because it was utterly pointless to continue to try to remain in their lives.
One of the many things I learnt, is that the better the father is and the nicer he is, the more the system will screw him and is children over and demonise him.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart, Bettina for all your tireless work you have done for our boys and men all these years with the culmination of this much needed book documenting everything. And as you pointed out, has not been acknowledged but at least it’s been written. What I will say unfortunately is that we will not win this war (anytime soon) because as you may or may not know, there are dark forces at work here in the background (and has been for many years) designed to destroy any semblance of a loving, Christian family unit to pit women against men. What I still don’t understand and you explained it perfectly, is why these weak politicians, judiciary, etc. allow the annihilation of their own sex! Sorry to sound so pessimistic, but I know there are a lot of good men and women out there championing you and your cause so we must never give up. ❤️
The comments about women in the media are spot on. I previously worked as a journalist and at 1 publication I was the only male in the Newsroom. The office politics were ridiculous with someone (most likely the sports reporter who feared for her job) leaking my stories to other media and then the editor would cite that as as excuse not to publish my work. The same female editor who was having an affair with a local politician. Women have high-jacked the media and any hetero male would no longer consider Journalism as a valid career path unless they could cover sport, something women know very little about. The biggest problem was that the womens' cycles had synchronised and one week a month the working conditions became unbearable. I will never work in a Newsroom again as the feminist element ensures it is not a good place for males.
I can’t read this. It’s too much. But it’s people like you that, may make a change and we thank you. The pain in the comments is shocking. For me I’ve spent minimal as I kinda walked away. It may go down this horrific court route though as she has the upper hand. For my mental health I walked away and I live in hope. Not many understand this.
I read your article a couple of months ago about male suicide and what policies they’re looking to bring in where you gave us links to the politicians emails. I wrote emails to 6 politicians without 1 response back. Just goes to show how much they really care
I am appalled at male suicides due to family courts. Instead of killing oneself, the matter should be turned on the judges and lawyers. If someone is going to commit suicide, take a few with you.
If you believe in Karma then the misery perpetrated in the name of the law will swing back onto these creators of violence and hatred. Our society is riddled with stories of the like by many people who experienced the whole malignancy.
Well, a wonderful article about an inexcusable situation. Thank you all your hard work, Bettina. I think you should be exposed to a young man doing an exemplary job on Instagram regarding men's enforced position in society. Very evenhanded and cleverly presented. PLEASE take a peek...@thetinmen
I have frequently pointed out how the nine papers, The Age and Sydney Morning herald refuse to publish comments to their stories which challenge the feminist narrative. I now know they will not be, but keep submitting them anyway.
I submitted this comment yesterday in response to one which claimed that family violence offences were rising. It was not published:
"Not true. Statistics show that the trend has been downwards for several decades.
Surveys show that women are as likely to be perpetrators of family violence as men. Men are physically stronger and so are more likely to cause death, but about a third of intimate partner homicides the perpetrator is a woman.
In cases of child homicide, the most likely perpetrator is the mother.
The narrative that women are always the victims and never perpetrators causes real harm."
Phil, did you try to republish with different wording but the same message?
I've done my own testing and tried rewording, shortening but the main message is still there and then they are accepted.
What I've noticed is similar to you. One newspaper will have an article that borders on 'hate speech' and yet my comment gets rejected! Instantly.. so a Bot is being used and wording can get around that bot.
In your comment above, I'd drop the 'not true'.. for starters.. unless you have already tried... I've noticed that anything that can be construed as 'violence, threatening, aggressive' gets rejected, not always...
I'm also learning that some newspapers are definitely on a 'we want to change society' and if your comment doesn't fit = rejection.
There is a major study out there, by Dr. Fiebert--References Examining Assaults by Women on Their Spouses or Male Partners: An Updated Annotated Bibliography that says 40-50% of all domestic violence is committed by women. This annotated bibliography describes 343 scholarly investigations (270 empirical studies and 73 reviews) demonstrating that women are as physically aggressive as men (or more) in their relationships with their spouses or opposite-sex partners. The aggregate sample size in the reviewed studies exceeds 440,850 people. The study evidences that domestic violence by women is more violent because women use guns, knives, poison, cars, baseball bats and other tools.
Another fantastic article on this heinous topic. It seems to be a case of out of sight, out of mind for the unaffected general public. More needs to be done in combating the relentless wreckage caused by the unhinged feminist driven governmental departments.
It is worth noting that Mark Dreyfus, and Labor, have just introduced (alleged) domestic violence to be a factor in divorce property settlements - so now the DV card will be sued not just in cases of children, but also when there are no children.
It is hard to have any sympathy though for any men who go through the Family Circus if they vote Labor/Greens.
I wanted to alert people to really think about how they vote, though it is almost impossible at this point to really know who to vote for.. Anyway, I hope you/people find my research as interesting as I did :)
What we need to do is educate teenage boys and young men in their 20s about how the law, the system works and how it is implemented, if they have a child, or even a relationship with a woman.
There is nothing that will change the system as a large cohort of women unable to get a man to have a family.
I've been through all this. Destroyed me, mentally, physically and financially. Decades later I still have PTSD. Also destroyed in totality the relationship with my children because it was utterly pointless to continue to try to remain in their lives.
One of the many things I learnt, is that the better the father is and the nicer he is, the more the system will screw him and is children over and demonise him.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart, Bettina for all your tireless work you have done for our boys and men all these years with the culmination of this much needed book documenting everything. And as you pointed out, has not been acknowledged but at least it’s been written. What I will say unfortunately is that we will not win this war (anytime soon) because as you may or may not know, there are dark forces at work here in the background (and has been for many years) designed to destroy any semblance of a loving, Christian family unit to pit women against men. What I still don’t understand and you explained it perfectly, is why these weak politicians, judiciary, etc. allow the annihilation of their own sex! Sorry to sound so pessimistic, but I know there are a lot of good men and women out there championing you and your cause so we must never give up. ❤️
"The female of the species is more deadly than the male" Rudyard Kipling.
No. It's white males kicking other white males.
The comments about women in the media are spot on. I previously worked as a journalist and at 1 publication I was the only male in the Newsroom. The office politics were ridiculous with someone (most likely the sports reporter who feared for her job) leaking my stories to other media and then the editor would cite that as as excuse not to publish my work. The same female editor who was having an affair with a local politician. Women have high-jacked the media and any hetero male would no longer consider Journalism as a valid career path unless they could cover sport, something women know very little about. The biggest problem was that the womens' cycles had synchronised and one week a month the working conditions became unbearable. I will never work in a Newsroom again as the feminist element ensures it is not a good place for males.
The dominant female's periodic cycle dominates and is copied by the other females in the office ....
This book looks like a long overdue but all too welcome addition to the in many ways, shameful history of our family court.
I can’t read this. It’s too much. But it’s people like you that, may make a change and we thank you. The pain in the comments is shocking. For me I’ve spent minimal as I kinda walked away. It may go down this horrific court route though as she has the upper hand. For my mental health I walked away and I live in hope. Not many understand this.
Stay strong: sometimes walking away to protect yourself is the only option. Be there for your kids when they need you
Thank you. And I will. We all need to.
I read your article a couple of months ago about male suicide and what policies they’re looking to bring in where you gave us links to the politicians emails. I wrote emails to 6 politicians without 1 response back. Just goes to show how much they really care
I am appalled at male suicides due to family courts. Instead of killing oneself, the matter should be turned on the judges and lawyers. If someone is going to commit suicide, take a few with you.
I wrote to a local Senate candidate today, did get a response 🤞 may help our cause… don’t give up
I emailed my ex Federal Minister and the only acknowledgement I received was a 'thank you for your email' It was over the suicide concerns.
I also emailed two ministers over: Urgent Concern - Impact of NSW 'Rape Shield Laws' on Fair Trials
nothing.. it is disappointing.. to say the least..
If you believe in Karma then the misery perpetrated in the name of the law will swing back onto these creators of violence and hatred. Our society is riddled with stories of the like by many people who experienced the whole malignancy.
Well, a wonderful article about an inexcusable situation. Thank you all your hard work, Bettina. I think you should be exposed to a young man doing an exemplary job on Instagram regarding men's enforced position in society. Very evenhanded and cleverly presented. PLEASE take a peek...@thetinmen
I'm going to make sure he knows of you as well.
Cheers 🙏
Please do. We have tried to connect with him before. I would love to interview him.
I thought, who is this guy!!! I've heard of this name.. then I remembered.. this YouTube
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p4M5vFl9lZQ
Why Men Die by Suicide, Dr Susie Bennett meets TheTinMen
and this.. the first minute: Why Aren’t Men’s Issues Being Taken Seriously? - George TheTinMen https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PJ8RgCwAOR8
he mentions Movember
"inexcusable situation"; I'd add "excruciating" to this
I have frequently pointed out how the nine papers, The Age and Sydney Morning herald refuse to publish comments to their stories which challenge the feminist narrative. I now know they will not be, but keep submitting them anyway.
I submitted this comment yesterday in response to one which claimed that family violence offences were rising. It was not published:
"Not true. Statistics show that the trend has been downwards for several decades.
Surveys show that women are as likely to be perpetrators of family violence as men. Men are physically stronger and so are more likely to cause death, but about a third of intimate partner homicides the perpetrator is a woman.
In cases of child homicide, the most likely perpetrator is the mother.
The narrative that women are always the victims and never perpetrators causes real harm."
Phil, did you try to republish with different wording but the same message?
I've done my own testing and tried rewording, shortening but the main message is still there and then they are accepted.
What I've noticed is similar to you. One newspaper will have an article that borders on 'hate speech' and yet my comment gets rejected! Instantly.. so a Bot is being used and wording can get around that bot.
In your comment above, I'd drop the 'not true'.. for starters.. unless you have already tried... I've noticed that anything that can be construed as 'violence, threatening, aggressive' gets rejected, not always...
I'm also learning that some newspapers are definitely on a 'we want to change society' and if your comment doesn't fit = rejection.
There is a major study out there, by Dr. Fiebert--References Examining Assaults by Women on Their Spouses or Male Partners: An Updated Annotated Bibliography that says 40-50% of all domestic violence is committed by women. This annotated bibliography describes 343 scholarly investigations (270 empirical studies and 73 reviews) demonstrating that women are as physically aggressive as men (or more) in their relationships with their spouses or opposite-sex partners. The aggregate sample size in the reviewed studies exceeds 440,850 people. The study evidences that domestic violence by women is more violent because women use guns, knives, poison, cars, baseball bats and other tools.
Another fantastic article on this heinous topic. It seems to be a case of out of sight, out of mind for the unaffected general public. More needs to be done in combating the relentless wreckage caused by the unhinged feminist driven governmental departments.
I suggest Trump has taken the right step forward when he cancelled DEI in the U.S.A.
We definitely need the same here and in every country that engages in this decrepit system.
It is worth noting that Mark Dreyfus, and Labor, have just introduced (alleged) domestic violence to be a factor in divorce property settlements - so now the DV card will be sued not just in cases of children, but also when there are no children.
It is hard to have any sympathy though for any men who go through the Family Circus if they vote Labor/Greens.
I cannot vote anymore as I've lived outside Australia for more than five years.
I was going to post something here about the Elections based on my own research but posted it on my own substack: https://substack.com/home/post/p-158905675
I wanted to alert people to really think about how they vote, though it is almost impossible at this point to really know who to vote for.. Anyway, I hope you/people find my research as interesting as I did :)
Women vote left far more than men do.
Women are more likely to be brainwashed feminists
Brilliant and astonishing! You are a true Iron Lady and deserve all respect. I huge thank you for your selfless work and tenacity.
(And millions of "despicable males" are dying in the Ukrainian mud as it has always been.)
Don’t ever get married!
NEVER ever!
This is direly needed, long over due book in Australia. If they tried to keep the dads silent, even the stones will cry out (credit to Luke 19.40).
The only way to win is to not play the game.
What we need to do is educate teenage boys and young men in their 20s about how the law, the system works and how it is implemented, if they have a child, or even a relationship with a woman.
There is nothing that will change the system as a large cohort of women unable to get a man to have a family.