When a man has a wife who behaves abominably it’s like, oh , women. Like anyone with a moral compass would cheat on their husband and then try to take his assets. That’s a bad person.
As far as an abusive husband, I definitely wouldn’t blame the wife. I would definitely not think that no woman should get married beca…
When a man has a wife who behaves abominably it’s like, oh , women. Like anyone with a moral compass would cheat on their husband and then try to take his assets. That’s a bad person.
As far as an abusive husband, I definitely wouldn’t blame the wife. I would definitely not think that no woman should get married because every man would beat his wife if he got the chance, if the law allowed.
I would assume that she missed something when she married him, that she had abuse in her background so red flags didn’t alarm her.
“Women like dangerous men”- getting involved with a man a woman herself considers dangerous is a very stupid thing to do.
Some people are basically whole, some people are not. The abusers are definitely not okay.
Usually a victim has been victimized before.
But with a man, the story goes that he has no baggage and chose a totally normal woman and then bam.
So you most definitely have a point.
I don’t think I am blaming the man as much as I am saying that an abusive woman, like an abusive man, is not representative of their sex as a whole.
You make a good point.
When a man has a wife who behaves abominably it’s like, oh , women. Like anyone with a moral compass would cheat on their husband and then try to take his assets. That’s a bad person.
As far as an abusive husband, I definitely wouldn’t blame the wife. I would definitely not think that no woman should get married because every man would beat his wife if he got the chance, if the law allowed.
I would assume that she missed something when she married him, that she had abuse in her background so red flags didn’t alarm her.
“Women like dangerous men”- getting involved with a man a woman herself considers dangerous is a very stupid thing to do.
Some people are basically whole, some people are not. The abusers are definitely not okay.
Usually a victim has been victimized before.
But with a man, the story goes that he has no baggage and chose a totally normal woman and then bam.
So you most definitely have a point.
I don’t think I am blaming the man as much as I am saying that an abusive woman, like an abusive man, is not representative of their sex as a whole.
https://bettinaarndt.substack.com/p/women-are-great-at-coercive-control/comment/83731027?r=2z8wkz&utm_medium=ios
My original comment is actually saying just that.